Don't Be Held Back



"We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed."  2 Corinthians 4:8-9

Have you ever encountered a situation that made free climbing El Capitan actually look easy?  I believe we all have at some point in our lives.  Just as the case of the climber, in the photo, there are plenty of odds that is ready to defeat him: gravity, a loose hold ready to break away, no ropes for protection.  Plenty of adversity here to keep him from reaching the top.  That feeling sound familiar?

In light of these situations, Paul encourages us with his words that, even when everything seems against you, God will get you through it.  Satan works in many ways to try to defeat us, make us give up, and take his "easy road".  God continues to say, "Don't give up!  I AM here!  I'll get you through it!"  Keeping that focus and faith on our Creator, and we can get through anything.  The important thing is to keep moving upward.  If someone attempts to hold you back, spiritually, let them go.  As 1 Corinthians 15:33 states, "Do not be deceived: 'Bad company ruins good morals'."  If there is something tying you down, look to God to break free, as surely as He broke the chains from Peter's wrists (Acts 12:6-7).

While I don't see myself climbing a sheer face as El Capitan, I am determined to continue to scale the mountains that life sets in front of me.  Not only myself but, for my family to keep pushing forward, as well.  What mountains are you facing?  Keep moving forward, God will get you through it, and you will be that much stronger.

"And the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will Himself restore you and make you strong, firm, and steadfast."  1 Peter 5:10

A Treasured Jewel - A Shout to the Husbands



"Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them."  Colossians 3:19


Hey guys, (ladies, by all means follow along, as well) have you been guilty of putting your foot in your mouth?  Have you said or done something, whether purposely or not, that gave such a look from your wife that you said to you was everything short of loving?  Guilty, as charged!  

Having a disagreement is bad enough.  You add stubbornness, shouting, and harsh language; now you have a much larger issue.  It turned from a conversation to a fighting match.  You could almost hear the bell ring for Round 1 to end and Round 2 to begin.  Where did the love in that conversation cease to exist?  Even more, you just pushed aside God, the guide to yours and your wife's marriage.

1 Peter 3:7 states, "Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you in the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers."  I love the King James Version using the phrase "giving honor to the wife". Honor - giving tribute, high respect, great esteem.  My wife definitely deserves my highest esteem.  She has achieved remarkable goals in her personal life, as well as rising up in a "man's world" business.  I wouldn't tell her about that "weaker partner" bit.  She'd just give you a "Whatchoo talkin' 'bout, Willis?" look.  I haven't done a very good job of giving that honor to this remarkable creature that God put into my life.  Have you found yourself in that situation?  Yeahhhhh, time to eat crow, fellas!

Our wives are so much more to us.  We found them (wives could say the same about their husbands) as the diamond in the rough.  A rare treasure.  A sparkling jewel.  For God to bring this one true soul into your life is a precious gift from the Father.  Nothing less.  Scripture continues to tell us to love our wives as we love our own bodies; if we love our wife, we love ourselves. (Ephesians 5:28).  I can clearly (and shamefully) say that those moments that I was not being loving to my wife, I was failing to love myself.  I get more angered at myself and it pours out at those times.  Not a blessed highlight of a husband.  My wife has seen me at my best.  She has also seen me more beat and broken down than any family or friend.  She hasn't stopped loving me and supporting me because of it.  She deserves nothing less.  All of our wives deserve nothing less than our full love and support in them.

The bible gives us several more messages and guidance to being proper husbands.  I have had to go back to those passages and re-enter them into my heart, when I fall short of what He expects of me, and what my wife should be able to expect out of me.  

One of my favorite songs by Alabama, is called "The Maker Said Take Her".  That line continues: "and love her forever.  Take care of her for life and treat her right."  Husbands, treat your wives right.  Even when you royally screw up, show her that you love her, don't be afraid to apologize, and embrace her.  Help her to feel like the treasured jewel that she is, sparkling in love and affection.  Remember, she is a rare gift, not to be taken for granted.

A Feather In The Wind



“A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps.” Proverbs 16:9


Any "Forrest Gump" fans?  I love this movie for the simple lesson that it teaches.  This lesson comes at the beginning and end of the movie.  Remember that feather that you see, been pushed and tossed in whatever direction the winds takes it?  That defines the title character of this movie.  Forrest did not attempt to control his own destiny.  He went with the flow.  Whenever someone suggested that he do something, for merely said, "Okay", and off he went.  No hesitation or questions.  He just did it.

That should be how we respond to God's guidance.  Just go and do it.  How often do we try to question His choices for us?  How many times do we try to outthink God?  We know what direction we need to go, right?  Anybody?  Bueller?...….Bueller?

Proverbs 3:5 answers by stating: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”  Who will direct us?  God!  He is our Shepherd.  What does that make us?  His sheep!  Like sheep, we will wander off, get lost, or caught in some sort of trap; being unable to find our own way back or, get ourselves free.  We need to trust in God's plan.

What in your life is bigger than God's purpose for you?  I want to clear the air, about myself.  I have nerve damage in both inner ears.  It causes nonstop tinnitus and a slow deterioration of my hearing.  My audiologist stated that I will, most likely, reach a point where my hearing aids will no longer be sufficient and will require cochlear implants to maintain my hearing.  I have a condition which affects my senses and my balance, particularly in my vision.  The doctors are only able to give as educated guess to what the condition might be.  I have to take medicated drops in my right eye to keep the pressure from building up or, I could possibly get glaucoma.  I recently found out that my spine is out of alignment and am in rehab to get it properly aligned again.  On top of that, between a couple of my lowest lumbar vertebraes, my body did not produce enough cartilage to cushion those parts of my spine.  This is needed for proper spine health (movement, bearing body weight, and acting as a shock absorber).  I have no clue as to what future reprocussions might be.  Needless to say, physically, I have a few problems.  

In all this time, I NEVER asked God to "fix it."  Don't get me wrong, I would love to wake up tomorrow, knowing what is it like to hear normally, again.  I would love to not have to worry about pain in my lower back and neck.  I would LOVE to be able to walk down an aisle in Walmart, searching for an item, and NOT feel lightheaded.  BUT, I didn't ask God to fix it.  What I do ask God for, constantly, is to help me get through it.  Help me prepare IF these things progress to more problematic situations.  Guide me through and to allow me to continue moving forward, regardless of my physical condition.  If I become crippled, will I find another way to go hiking and fishing?  Yes!  Do I still go shopping with my wife?  Certainly!  If I should lose my hearing, will I still be able to communicate with my family and friends?  Of course!  My sweet wife, Megan, is already putting possible solutions in her mind.  She's not going to let me give up if things go south.  God won't either!

The thing is, God has things for me to do.  Should my physical condition prevent that?  NO!  Why?  God will use me in the most effective way that I can be to His service.  In comparison, my condition is rather small.  Anyone familiar with the evangelist, Nick Vujicic?  If not, I won't explain.  Just look him up.  He is a prime example of: "God use me!  My trust and faith is in You!  YOU will show me the way!"

Are you allowing God to use you in the way that He has planned?  Or, are you resisting, so certain that YOU determine and control the path you are walking?  

Think about it.